I realized something over the last few weeks about the projects I want to take on and the ones I don’t.
I took on a project that involved the development of a modest, professional services website recently.
Just the development. The writer and designer are people whose talents I admire and they are terrific to work with — I’d recommend them any day.
But because I was doing just the development, I felt very detached. A project for me is knowing and meeting the client, being involved from the get go. It also felt like I had placed myself 15 years in the past when I was just a production artist.
So while this project came to a completion to everyone’s satisfaction, I realized this is not the type of project I want to be doing. I didn’t learn anything new, I didn’t feel apart.
In contrast, I began a new branding project with a new client last week. We met, along with the writer for the project, for a getting-to-know you, what are your plans for your new business, how do you want to be perceived, what are your likes and dislikes, where do you see yourself in five years type of meeting.
A very good meeting. A meeting where you could tell there’s good creative chemistry between us — the kind I hope for. In this case, I get to know someone new, learn what they do and be exposed to new thoughts and ideas. I know the work will challenge me and allow me to grow as a designer — something I look for. It also makes me want to give it my all — to do my level best for this new client.
Which is what I mean about following your bliss. Part of that, for me, means building good working relationships where there’s trust in each other’s knowledge and options are valued. The work is always more rewarding and in the end, not only do I get paid from my clients, I get hugs.
That’s not to say I haven’t had some of this type of client or be at the receiving end of this type of decision maker. But since I’ve learned to follow my bliss, it’s far less likely to happen. And I’m saner for it.
So what’s your bliss? Are you following it? What’s standing in your way?
November 19, 2009
Stuff.
Sitting in my new office surrounded by unpacked boxes, I realize I have technically moved four times in the past 16 months. All have been moves of necessity. (economy, downsizing, helping friends out). It’s a complicated set of circumstances from which I continue to grow.
One thing I’ve learned is that you can be on the move and still get work done. I’ve carried some heavy project loads during our moves and not once dropped the ball or missed a deadline. Of course, modern technology has a lot to do with it, that and being very organized.
The other thing I’ve learned, (it should be no surprise to anyone), is that if you stay put for any length of time, you tend collect a lot of STUFF. It’s a weird part of our DNA. Everybody does it. After the moves we’ve made (my husband and I), after all the purging of STUFF, (either donate, recycle or at last resort, pitch), we still feel we have too much STUFF.
Gandhi said possessions are evil. What I think he meant was the possessions themselves aren’t evil, it’s our desire to have them that is. It can really get in the way — accumulating STUFF and it doesn’t make us any happier or fulfilled. We figured (my husband and I) that all we really need is the bit of stuff we use everyday, our house plants (great for better air quality during the long winter months), our dog and love.
So I’ve made a pact with myself. If I haven’t seen it, used it, certainly won’t miss it, that STUFF will be either donated, recycled or at last resort, pitched. I know I will continue to collect stuff, it’s in my DNA. But at least I can be more conscience of it.
The sad part of our country’s economy is that it’s so heavily depended upon people buying STUFF. I’m not saying all stuff is bad, just think it through before you buy. Wouldn’t it be better to buy the stuff that will make your home more energy efficient or stuff to start a vegetable garden than some plastic do-dad that only brings you joy for all of three minutes?
Every year, as “Black Friday” approaches, I shutter at the behavior that goes on. Last year, people were trampled and hurt in a rush to get into a store that I won’t name here. Just to buy STUFF. I hope that doesn’t happen this year. This year I hope people will step back, count their blessings and instead of buying STUFF, do something positive. Donate to a food shelf, save for the future, hug a friend who needs it, and if you can, make something for someone you love. The stuff made by hand is the best stuff to have. It’s unique, it’s been thoughtfully made for you and you alone — the stuff of love you won’t find at a Big Box, anywhere.
Happy Holidays.
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